Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Moving On.

Moving on. This is something we all have to do eventually in life, whether its moving on from past loves and relationship or moving on in life by going to college or getting married and having kids. It may seem like a very scary and emotional thing, but in the end, its for the best. You get rewarded after moving on. You find a better man, you get an education and a chance for a career, you get a life and its wonderful.
Right now I'm moving on in my life, Im going of to college, I just got my first job, and I'm trying to move on from a past love. Is it scary? Uhh, DUH. But, I know that I will get past this and I know that one day I will look back at moving on and remember how scared I was and how much of an emotional toll it took on me and Ill just think "I was so stupid, why didn't I see the big picture?"
First, lets talk about college. Going off to a new school, in a new place and not knowing anyone is REALLY scary.. First of all you have to buy tons of new stuff, like kitchen stuff. Then you actually need to know how to cook to use those and you also have to do your own laundry. You are living on your own with people you dont even know and you will be taking hard classes with unfamiliar teachers. Plus, you will have to be finding a new career and eventually a future spouse. Scary, huh? Its also a very exciting time, though. You get to start a new adventure, create new memories, and become even happier.
Next is my first job. I now work at Hollister. Yeah.. I have always hated that store, but they're paying me. :) Its really scary at first.. The first day, they put me on the register ALONE... You know how freaky that was? I really cannot wait to quit and go to college! :) That was short, but I dont have much to say about it.
Last, but not least is moving on from love. Hard. Hard. Hard. And it may never happen. You might have found someone new, but with some loves, you never fully get over them, you will always love them. But, what you need to do with this is, don't dwell on the past, look forward and find someone new or focus on you. Love is tough, but if you have good friends that stick by you, even when you're in a fight, you can get through it.
Moving on with anything is hard, but you can always get through it, because in the end it will all be worth it. You just have to fight through all the crap to get to the good stuff.

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